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Blondes or Brunettes?

Apparently the world has become obsessed with sex. In a recent Men’s Health article Raquel Welch – one of the top 100 sexiest women in the world – recently made a comment about our current society quoting: ‘we’re all sex addicts, literally’ and that we equate happiness with the frequency of sexual activity we participate in. This made me think about how we all like to define our ‘ideal partner’ when in search of one. Does it really come down to the external factors like ‘fair hair & blue eyes’ or ‘tall, dark & handsome’ as opposed to ‘a loving, caring and intelligent equal’? Has dating become a way to find the most suitable sexual equal as opposed to an equal in every other level?

We have noticed that some Drawing Down the Moon clients, when it comes to describing their ‘ideal partner’, have become more and more specific with their requests. Men are often saying ‘I only am interested in meeting brunettes’ and women ‘I couldn’t imagine going out with someone who is only 5’8” tall (when they’re 5’2” themselves)’. Does hair colour really matter guys? And ladies, does one or two inches really make that much of a difference..?

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This entry was posted on Thursday, March 15th, 2012 at 5:02 pm and is filed under Body Language, Dating, Drawing Down the Moon, Flirting, Ideal partner, Meeting New People, Successful Relationships. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.

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Picking Up at a Party: Guide for Men and Women

It’s the festive season, which means end of year gatherings, Christmas celebrations and New Year’s Eve.

Here are practical and workable guides for men and women for attracting the opposite sex successfully…

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This entry was posted on Thursday, December 23rd, 2010 at 4:52 pm and is filed under Body Language, Conversation, Dating, Flirting, Helpful Tips, Meeting New People, Parties and Events. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. Responses are currently closed, but you can trackback from your own site.

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Christmas Pulling Guide

The best ways to attract his attention and impress him while you’re talking to him!

1.     Pay him a compliment – ‘That’s a cool tie’. It never fails.

2.    Do proactive listening – reflect back something he’s just said, but using different words ‘So you really love scuba diving…’ or ‘you reckon that it’s time you changed your job…’.  He’ll be so impressed.

3.    Ask him to tell you more about something he said earlier

4.    Use his name in conversation – it creates powerful electricity.

Essential flirty body language

1.   An effective smile is used sparingly, on its own, as a statement or to reinforce other messages. Let it suffuse your face after a moment’s reflection in response to something your man has said or done.  Smiling all the time looks emotionally needy.

2.    Sensuously caress your hair; play with your necklace or earring, twirl your cocktail stirrer (or whatever other small object is to hand) and you’ll give out powerful sexual signals.

3.     A sideways glance is very sexy and will disable a man’s defences before he realises it. This piece of body talk is particularly effective if emanating from behind a curtain of tousled tresses nonchalantly flung back.

Fashion tips

1.     Go for dark but rich and luminous colours for ultimate pulling power at Christmas.  Avoid white and pastels unless you’re sylph like and eighteen.

2.    This may come as a surprise, but even in this day and age, most men still prefer women in skirts rather than trousers – don’t ask me why.

3.    To reveal or not to?  I’d say reveal just enough of your best assets to make him want to see more.  Reveal too much and there’s nothing left to tantalise his curiosity.

4.    Most men say they don’t like obvious make up especially gooey lips.  So go for a more natural glowy look.

Two ultimate never-forget-this flirt tips

1.     To evoke a naturally flirtatious mood, just recall a time when you felt enticingly flirty at some time in the past.  Try and evoke what it felt like, even what you saw and heard.  Give the memory a colour and enjoy imagining it coursing through your veins.

2.    Successful flirts always make the flirtee feel wonderful – make that your aim and you’ll feel wonderful too.

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This entry was posted on Tuesday, December 14th, 2010 at 11:13 am and is filed under Body Language, Flirting, Meeting New People. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. Responses are currently closed, but you can trackback from your own site.

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The Best Ways to Flirt with Your Date!

The Best ways to flirt with your date:

1. Use their name in conversation – it creates powerful electricity.

2. Pay them a compliment – ‘That’s a cool tie’ or ‘That’s a great outfit’.  It never fails.

3. Do proactive listening – reflect back something they’ve just said, but using different words ‘So you really love scuba diving…’ or ‘you reckon that it’s time you changed your job…’.  They’ll be so impressed.

4. Ask lots of open ended question about what they think/feel/believe, etc.  But don’t interrogate.

5. If stuck for conversation, ask them to tell you more about something they said earlier

6. Ensure you don’t do all the talking!

Essential flirty body language:

For men and women

An effective smile is used sparingly, on its own, as a statement or to reinforce other messages. Let it suffuse your face after a moment’s reflection in response to something your date has said or done.  Smiling all the time looks emotionally needy.

For women only

1. Sensuously caress your hair; play with your necklace or earring,

2. A sideways glance is very sexy and will disable a man’s defences before he realises it. This piece of body talk is particularly effective if emanating from behind a curtain of tousled tresses nonchalantly flung back.

3. Now and then hold eye contact for that millisecond longer – but   don’t stare.

For men only

1. Relax, sit tall and ensure you are fully facing your date and giving her uninterrupted attention.

2. Check out if your date is giving out defensive or pulling away  signals – maybe you’re being too forward in which case slow down.

3. Lightly caress your wine glass (or whatever other small object is to hand) and you’ll give out powerful sexual signals.

Two never-forget-this flirt tips:

1. Successful flirts always make the flirtee feel wonderful – make that your aim and you’ll feel wonderful too.

2. To evoke a naturally flirtatious mood, just recall a time when you felt enticingly flirty at some time in the past.  Try and evoke what it felt like, even what you saw and heard.  Give the memory a colour and enjoy imagining it coursing through your veins.

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This entry was posted on Saturday, October 2nd, 2010 at 12:59 pm and is filed under Body Language, Conversation, Flirting. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.