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The best ways to flirt with your date

  • Use their name in conversation – it creates powerful electricity.
  • Pay them a compliment – ‘That’s a cool tie’ or ‘That’s a great outfit’. It never fails.
  • Ask lots of open ended question about what they think/feel/believe, etc. But don’t interrogate.
  • Do proactive listening – reflect back something they’ve just said, but using different words ‘So you really love scuba diving…’ or ‘you reckon that it’s time you changed your job…’. They’ll be so impressed.
  • If stuck for conversation, ask them to tell you more about something they said earlier.
  • Ensure you don’t do all the talking!
  • An effective smile is used sparingly, on its own, as a statement or to reinforce other messages. Let it suffuse your face after a moment’s reflection in response to something your date has said or done.